Little Known Ways of Using Meditation and Relaxation to Facilitate Habit Changes
Since its inception, relaxation and meditation has been recognized as important treatment modalities. However, many people have noted that most of these treatment modalities are only used by professionals. What they don’t know is that these can also be used personally and applied on their own.
Here’s how:
1. Breathe
Air is one of the most important, maybe even the single most important element that man needs in order to survive. However, many people fail to appreciate breathing.
Experts say that breathing as a means of relaxation can greatly help people not only relieve stressful situations but also to facilitate bad habit changes.
How? It is very simple. With deep breathing exercises, muscle tension, anxiety, and other factors that inhibit unclear or distracted thinking are eliminated. Hence, with a more relaxed condition, it will be easier for you to facilitate bad habit changes.
2. Identify stress
People who are stressed tend to engage in activities that may temporarily relieve them but in reality these things only do more harm than good.
For instance, most tobacco smokers contend that one of the reasons they smoke is to relieve tension or stress. They don’t know that smoking can even aggravate the situation by increasing tension and irritability.
By applying some meditative and relaxing activities, such as yoga or self-hypnosis, you can easily identify stress and, therefore, quit smoking. And even if the change process is stressful, the results can be invigorating.
3. Detoxify
And this doesn’t mean the usual detoxification that people usually do with their bodies. Detoxifying your mind means using effective measures of eliminating negative situations or concepts.
Successful people say that in order to eliminate bad thoughts, you need to program yourself with good thoughts and this can be done by simply choosing positive thoughts.
Yes, this is a choice. It is either you think positive or think negative. Our mind can’t occupy two thoughts at the same time. Hence, if you really want to change your bad habits, it is important that you expect the best. People who fail to change bad habits always complain about the fallacies or mistakes in their program or activities. For those who succeed in eliminating bad habits, they always think of the best and believe that they can change for the better without any trace of bad habits left behind.
4. Engage in self-hypnosis
Sigmund Freud, co-founder of the psychoanalytic school of psychology, said that change won’t take place unless hypnosis is involved. With this, he meant that people can only effect change if their minds are in a relaxed state. Through self-hypnosis, the mind is relieved from anxiety and the whole body is free from stress. Hence, people are more prepared to accept suggestions that facilitate bad habit changes.
Some people say that self-hypnosis may also resemble that of counseling because suggestions take place. This isn’t the case. Experts say that even if suggestions take place in both situations, the ability of the mind to accept things in every respect is more evident and effective when the mind isn’t in its conscious state. That is because when the mind is in its conscious state, it tends to be logical and reasonable.
5. Quantify optimism and positive thoughts
If you think you can’t simply switch from negative thoughts to positive thoughts because it has always been like that, think again. The idea is to quantify the switches that you do in order to see how effective this process can be.
For instance, every time you have negative thoughts, immediately switch to positive. Then, count every time you do this. In time, you will be amazed at the results. Little by little, the numbers will decrease.
So where do these pointers lead you? All of these things boil down to the fact that changing habits isn’t just a process but more of a psychoanalytical activity where the mind is the primary motivator. Experts say that people just have to change the way they perceive things and develop a sense of acceptance to things that will lead them to a better life.
Everything happens not by chance but because people make choices. Everyone has a choice and right choices always take place in a relaxed, positive mind.